Worry Monster moves in to the Children’s Allergy Service
12 September 2018
Your donations have funded a Worry Monster – an innovative child-friendly device that helps children with food allergies express their worries around their condition. It’s a useful, effective tool for allaying deep-seated anxieties.
Parents and carers have been impressed with how this new furry friend encourages their children to talk more openly about their anxieties and helps them overcome their fears.
Opening up conversations
The cute and friendly Worry Monster lives in the clinic rooms, ready to gobble up any anxieties expressed by our young patients. After writing down their fears and worries, children place their written words in the mouth of the Worry Monster. Not only does this unburden young patients, it also serves to normalise their feelings because they can look at the thoughts expressed by other youngsters and realise that they’re not alone.
Lizzie Doncaster, mother to nine-year-old Joe, who has multiple life-threatening food allergies and chronic eczema was impressed at how much the Worry Monster helped her son during his clinic sessions.
‘It opened up a conversation that I don’t think would have happened without the Worry Monster being shown to him,’ says Lizzie. ‘We went through all the different worries that were thrown up in this particular clinic from other children and Joe said, “I wonder if that’s all the boys that I’m friends with in the clinic” - so that opened up another conversation.
‘The Worry Monster enables him to have a little bit more control over things and articulate lack of control or wanting more control.'
The children’s worries can come in many forms, from feeling different from other children to being scared of trying new foods in case they have a severe reaction.
Seven-year-old Rohan suffers from needle phobia, so much so that he has refused any skin prick testing (the most common allergy test) for two years.
‘We actually don’t know what his allergy status is at the moment, which is a big problem as it’s so important,’ explains his mother, Meera Shah. ‘The Worry Monster is one of the tools that’s helping us overcome that, so we can have up-to-date information.'
‘I saw an immediate impact within the clinic on Rohan. It helped him express his worries, which he wasn’t able to do before.
‘Using the Worry Monster means that we don’t have to have a direct conversation about it, which he sometimes finds anxiety provoking.’
Making a huge difference
Dr Polly James is a clinical psychologist in the children’s allergy service. She works with families and their children who have multiple and severe food allergies, and says that these conditions can cause numerous problems.
‘Children with allergies face a lot of difficulties which can significantly impact on their quality of life and create a lot of emotional difficulties,’ she explains.
‘Even at a very young age, they can sense that certain foods may not be safe for them to eat or become aware that they cannot eat the same as other children. Talking with children honestly and helping them express their emotions makes it easier for them to feel safe and secure.
‘It’s really fantastic to be able to use the Worry Monster as part of the service we provide to our patients,’ says Polly. ‘It’s a great tool to help reduce worries and emotional difficulties. So many families have been able to benefit from the Worry Monster, which has made a huge difference to their quality of life.’
Caiden and the Worry Monster
Caiden has multiple allergies. It’s stressful, and he used to struggle to talk about how he felt. Then he met the Worry Monster, and things got better...